jeyKAD

Yes! I agree. Men are terrible cheats. They cheat so well and so many times that one begins to lose count. Is it almost always an effortless act to name them so because they are men? Some say they are like bees_ they'd sting a thousand times not because they have to but because they can. Cheating has grown into their anatomy like pride to royalty. You could almost hear silent whispers hush your noisy thoughts down saying, "how dare you chastise him for the act?" I'm almost asking myself, "is there any shame committing this heartbreaking, marriage shattering and life taking evil?" In modern times younger male folks are ranked amongst their peers according to how many females they are getting laid. It is not a trend. It has become the trend. I say so because fine books have been written to curtail and forestall this menace but the saying goes,  'you can only force a horse to a river and the rest is history'. Cheating is the new thirst. You just can&#

And so pictures of an unfaithful wife who was caught cheating in Iyakpi (Ibie axis of Etsako west, Edo state) have become a regular feature on my timeline. Hmm. I'm yet to see the infidel of a man she was caught with. Am not surprised. Women are always at the receiving end here (in Africa)  but I'm here to not in any way justify her actions. Yet I must ask questions. *how many male cheats have been exposed on social media from same Iyakpi or elsewhere in Edo state? (even though them plenty and are walking Scott free from committing the crimes the accuse women of) *(for those proliferating the web with her pictures) can you boast of not being as guilty as the said woman? Now lemme not go on and on with the questions just so I don't bore you. Truth is I'm ashamed of every woman that has posted pics of her with uncanny captions. Just because your day never break abi!? Well I don't know her husband but I can only sympathize with him if he is heartbroken on

I didn't celebrate, Not because I couldn't. What's there to celebrate? I thought infact I shouldn't. All she does is age, While I grin in the dark. 57th party is staged As all her greens grow dark Congratulations, you're still alive and kicking, An entity made one by a forced marriage. Forgive me love, I swear this love is sickening, I'm weak, so weak I might die before your age. Yes, Mummy wipe my tears, Do the do(s) and make this home homey. Show me love, alley my fears, Set in motion positive change, you can do it_ show me! __Jeremiah Kadiri